Advice to nerds looking for love
Why does one think?, to make realistic plans for the future, beginning with the end in mind! Children, holding down a job, saving for college and rainy days, growing old with your partner for better for worse, all of it. If one doesn't think this way expect to leave shipwrecks including yourself and broken families lying around. Sex might be fun but it's deadly serious.
Those simping, having romantic delusional romantic,fantasies, chasing strippers, don't see the sucker the stripper sees.
Find Jesus, women are hard work, the reason your a nerd is because you prefer computers than forming a solid relationship with women and learning their ways, they are complex creatures with their own agenda to learn about this watch Alexander Grace YouTube.
From the bible sexual romantic interest and possessiveness is wrong Jesus's words But I say unto you, That whosoever look on a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart.
A very pure don't indulge the eye, s because if you only want to satisfy lust you won't be there to bring up a child, and, when she is old and not as physically attractive. It's a reasonable bummer, women will know all you want is sex if your body language indicates your looking at them lustfully from addiction to porn. This is the logic of being called out as a pervert. I don't like to admit it but the label still sticks to me too.
Women go for sexually exciting Chad and Tyrone for the same reasons men go for strippers and suffer the consequences of being single mom's and expect a good mam to come along and provide for another man's child at the 32 to 40 age. Alpha f#$ks, beta bucks.
The rules of engagement for women for men who don't care about getting up at 3am in the morning to change nappies and care less about the children they produce than themselves are more complex than quantum physics Albert Einstiens son committed suicide in a psychiatric hospital I believe self absorbtion and happy fulfilling relationships with women and children don't go together admittedly someone can be a nepotist egomaniac and a good father cos he still loves his children more than himself although the kid will turn out to be bent out of shape by egomania too but women love men who think a lot of themselves even if its undeserved.
Stephen Hawking was a brilliant and ambituous mathematician but flawed. I believe got his disease and bent out of shape by building his life on the assumption that the laws of nature made by God can be reduced to non poetic mathematical equations, he came to a sad end while Christians if they have a clear conscience can die meeting their dead relatives at their last moments welcoming them into Heaven for not being compeditive and helping others out through life and a life well lived.
Heaven on Earth is made by having care about each other more than they care about themselves that way everyone has 8 billion people watching their back rather than just themselves.
I could point you to expert pick up artists on YouTube whom I learned loads off of but applying the knowledge is dangerous in social situations as fights can break out, and requires beyond expert poker playing quick thinking and fantastic acting abilities, its not worth it, most importantly this would lead to aborted children who will have warring angels minding them in Heaven rather than fighting the devil and his one third of fallen angels as these children are wrecking Heaven as they never learned not to sin in the school of hard knocks called Earth see Sid Roth It's Supernatural for more info, also STD's transmission is a problem, its so irresponsible.
Relationships with sexy women are addictive and great at the start but all relationships are work in the long term, look at the hard relationship God has with Man in the Bible, Sin is a universal law which makes lives worse, a sad law of nature, the law of Karma probably even God can't change, yet we still do it and fuck up our World our lives and the lives of other people.
I wasted 120k euro on strippers,thinking, I was going to have a quick marriage, make a baby and divorce after 6 months, this destructive thinking which led me to getting head wrecked by them playing we got cookies and you ain't getting any ( sex ) laughing at me while they could. In short as the Beatles said money can't buy me love, a hard earned fact I learned supernaturally from faeries on the ceiling singing it in a magic mushroom like experience I had in psychiatric hospital for my 50th birthday.
A reputation takes 30 years to create and 5 seconds to destroy and I lost a lot of good friends due to me making a fool of myself with women who were only interested in plucking a simp for money and later sending stupid emails to my friends while delusional owing to the fallout of my life.
Men are expected to let their Children shine and not outshine them to embarrassment Men in Black Star Will Smith despite being charismatic wife Jada Pinkett possibly dumped him and had an affair because og him being an egomaniac hogging the limelight from his son Jaden the Karate Kid Star on the Graham Norton show.
See the videos below for the evidence.
Women communicate in feelings rather than logic, respond to fun, expect you'll take a subtle hint rather than need everything spelt out. They are very different than men and have 6 times as much f their brains wired for interpreting subtle cues in tone of voice and body language men are basically autistic in comparison especially nerds. Also if your not great friends with women who aren't fantastic looking you are only after sex and don't care about them stay and make friends with women and you'll get many doors open for you in life, some women love dancing and it's kindof fun soft foreplay for them if you want to do better with women learning to dance or joining a cooking class is a good option. Talk to women get to know their values, communication styles and what they care about if you want to get somewhere with them.
Begin with the end in mind if you are falling for someone make sure you love their heart otherwise your wasting time with a pretty picture and looks fade. If you won't love her when she is 80 and not an oil painting your children will resent you. Selfishness due to addiction in the short term only leads to tears down the road.
Only have sex within marriage to make children as aborted babies have to be minded by warring angels in Heaven they have to do this rather than fighting the third of fallen angels with the Devil leaving earth a terrible place as the spiritual atmosphere here gets worse and the people who commit these sins go to hell if they don't repent bigitime, these children have to be minded for eternity as they tend towards sin as they never learned the problems caused by sinning in the school of hard knocks called earth as they were supposed to. according to Sid Roth guests on YouTube.
Did you know that its possible that aborted babies are being used to make cosmetics ... witchcraft think about that if your pro choice kissing your girlfriends lips.
Make sure the children grow up responsible in a nuclear family love God and avoid sin watch Jordan Petersen who explains the importance of living a moral life and why your life will be shitty if you don',t on YouTube, google a purpose driven life and watch Sid Roth. A child which ends up in Hell is better of not being born, be responsible don't spread your seed if your not willing to take full responsibility for all the consequences of your actions for all eternity.
Very good video
If all this realism, negative talk, hasn't put you off and you accept what I'm saying is true you will care about your children more than yourself are still interested well go for it and have a happy life.
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